Ego: A perplexed condition of your relationship

Having a person in life that really admires you and your feelings, is indeed a blessing. This blessing needs to be pampered and respected well even if any condition. Obviously, the feel and the bond between the two is created and then raised by the trust, love, and affection. This must be stronger day by day but somehow sometimes this starts getting weak, and this makes you think about the same again and again.

You both were dived in the deep ocean of love but suddenly, everything starts changing. A single seed of ego starts growing and then all get ruined. Though people know about the term ‘Ego’, to understand the same takes much time. Till a couple understands their ego problem, the love ocean has soaked totally and gets barren. 

Remember how you started

Once you both met and that was planned by Almighty. Often you started the conversation with each and then the awkward communication turns into friendship. Indeed, friendship is the most beautiful relation what we make after our blood relations. But soon you both decided to thrive the friendship into love and you started to feel about the person that this is rest half of your life.

As time passed, slowly the things start changing their definition between you both. The matters were not same, the reason because you both or one is not practicing that much to save the same. In most of the cases, the ego is the root cause. Ego destroys relationship as it stops the communication and efforts to save that.

What the Ego is

Ego is nothing but a pile of thoughts that are created internally. The thoughts are your own that can be embraced by an outer environment but can’t be created. This is an inner feel but at the same time when an outer situation irrigates the small seed of ego in you, the root gets stronger. What the person does is just to gather the overall past experience and starts barring everything around that only.

Closing the doors never helps a relationship to breathe and when the doors are closed then the airing gets barred. Now, in the darkness and vacuumed ambiance, ultimately the relationship dies. An ego in relation creates a toxic situation and that further results as a breach of the same.   

A beautiful restart of your love

Ego is a perplexed condition of any relationship whether it is with your partner or with your any loved one. If you want to blossom your relationship anyhow, then you must vanish the ego first. There are many ways that will help you to get a successful relationship, let’s dig out some of those that you must perform in this concern –

•    You may have a bad experience in past but each situation has its own definition. Therefore, you must think and make sure the problems and solutions are not overlapping each other. Put them differently and treat them all individually with great perfection.

•    Your relationship is your own call and then you should not be dominated by anyone else’s thoughts. Everyone has different chapters and papers created by destiny and Almighty. Therefore, you may take suggestions from others but don’t get that much affected from the same, take your own decisions. 

•    Love is an auspicious blessing and you should treat it accordingly. If your partner is not making that much input to rescue the relationship, it doesn’t mean that you can also take your steps back.

A relationship is a brittle rope, where the ego is scissor; don’t execute the same so much that it gets breached. Your few efforts can blow the life in it and make it everlasting. Start efforts by today!

Heal Your Relationship with these Techniques

Do you fight most of the time? Do you realize that the relationship has hit the rock bottom line? You might be thinking how to work on it. To have fought in a relationship is normal.  You might notice the changes in your relationship during the hard times and good times. The relationship that lasts for long is the one where you find enough care and love for each person and support each other during their difficult times. If you are looking for broken healing relationship techniques?  Then this topic will guide you through it.

Methods to Heal Relationships

1.     Pink Light Technique:  one of the most powerful techniques used in today’s world is the Pink light technique. This technique is used to heal a relationship. This is also used to cure all pain and sufferings in a relationship. Here are the steps listed

·        Select a cool place that will make you fall in love with the place

·        Imagine a picture in your mind’s eye of Pink Loving Light that is emitted from your heart and surrounds yourself in the pink sphere.

·        To be inside your pink sphere and hold on to the most amazing memories of your life and imagine it outside of the pink light. Cover your memory within the Pink Loving Light

·        Next, start with your family members and bring each person in front of you outside of the Pink Light Sphere. Try to remember the loving memories of them. Cover the person inside the pink light and move to the next person.

·        Get the person into the picture with whom you are discomfort follow the same instruction as above

·        Next, bring the person into your mind’s eye anyone whom you know or don’t know and covers them within the Pink loving light and allow them to go.

2.     The Bubble Technique: The process starts by drifting the person to sleep. Once the person is drifting off to sleep, he needs to imagine a big bubble, the bubble should fit almost 10 people inside it. Now imagine that this bubble is floating up in the sky during the night and keep watching it, you will notice that the bubble is moving higher and higher. Now consider that you are weightless and you are floating up in the bubble, you will get an amazing feeling of floating in space and drifting and feels connected to the world. As you move towards the bubble a bubble door opens for you and you step inside it. Inside the bubble, you find a clean and clear floor with two chairs faced towards each other. Take your place and sit on it and have a watch over the world below you through that glass bubble.

Now time to invite a person to sit on the vacant chair, the person could be anyone with whom you are discomfort or difficulty or want to build a good relationship. Now from the bubble, you see that the person is moving over the bubble and comes to the bubble door. Now invite him by opening the door and make him sit on the chair, start the conversation by expressing and why you called them here. Speak everything out of your heart and be honest. Allow the conversation to take place stay calm and relax.


-Via Nidhi Goel