Ego: A perplexed condition of your relationship

Having a person in life that really admires you and your feelings, is indeed a blessing. This blessing needs to be pampered and respected well even if any condition. Obviously, the feel and the bond between the two is created and then raised by the trust, love, and affection. This must be stronger day by day but somehow sometimes this starts getting weak, and this makes you think about the same again and again.

You both were dived in the deep ocean of love but suddenly, everything starts changing. A single seed of ego starts growing and then all get ruined. Though people know about the term ‘Ego’, to understand the same takes much time. Till a couple understands their ego problem, the love ocean has soaked totally and gets barren. 

Remember how you started

Once you both met and that was planned by Almighty. Often you started the conversation with each and then the awkward communication turns into friendship. Indeed, friendship is the most beautiful relation what we make after our blood relations. But soon you both decided to thrive the friendship into love and you started to feel about the person that this is rest half of your life.

As time passed, slowly the things start changing their definition between you both. The matters were not same, the reason because you both or one is not practicing that much to save the same. In most of the cases, the ego is the root cause. Ego destroys relationship as it stops the communication and efforts to save that.

What the Ego is

Ego is nothing but a pile of thoughts that are created internally. The thoughts are your own that can be embraced by an outer environment but can’t be created. This is an inner feel but at the same time when an outer situation irrigates the small seed of ego in you, the root gets stronger. What the person does is just to gather the overall past experience and starts barring everything around that only.

Closing the doors never helps a relationship to breathe and when the doors are closed then the airing gets barred. Now, in the darkness and vacuumed ambiance, ultimately the relationship dies. An ego in relation creates a toxic situation and that further results as a breach of the same.   

A beautiful restart of your love

Ego is a perplexed condition of any relationship whether it is with your partner or with your any loved one. If you want to blossom your relationship anyhow, then you must vanish the ego first. There are many ways that will help you to get a successful relationship, let’s dig out some of those that you must perform in this concern –

•    You may have a bad experience in past but each situation has its own definition. Therefore, you must think and make sure the problems and solutions are not overlapping each other. Put them differently and treat them all individually with great perfection.

•    Your relationship is your own call and then you should not be dominated by anyone else’s thoughts. Everyone has different chapters and papers created by destiny and Almighty. Therefore, you may take suggestions from others but don’t get that much affected from the same, take your own decisions. 

•    Love is an auspicious blessing and you should treat it accordingly. If your partner is not making that much input to rescue the relationship, it doesn’t mean that you can also take your steps back.

A relationship is a brittle rope, where the ego is scissor; don’t execute the same so much that it gets breached. Your few efforts can blow the life in it and make it everlasting. Start efforts by today!