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Monday, September 3, 2018

Stages of Friendship


As said correctly "A Friend in need, is a friend indeed" a person who helps you when you are in need is your true friend. Have you ever come across a situation which is worse than bankruptcy, termination from job and its? We all been in these situations, but trust me there will be millions of advice, but a very few hands to back up matters the most and that is a true friend. Friendship is defined as a mutual affection with a person, which does not include sexual or family relations. What would life be like without friends? Hallow right, the Friends are people we love to spend time with. They bring fun in celebrations and support unconditionally. 



These Stages of Friendship start with when we meet a "stranger". We start our conversation randomly and if things go well, we would advance to the next stage: "casual acquaintances". Here we might start to share some feelings and thoughts, but only positive ones. This stage is all about getting to know one another better. If things continue to go well, you would advance to the next stage: "friends". During this stage, we begin to trust one another. We feel secure in the others company. It takes much longer to reach the next stage of friendship which is "Deep friendship". By this point, both of you have experienced each other closely for so long that you trust each other deeply.  The final stage "self-intimate" consists of you and only you! And it's healthy to keep some thoughts and feeling totally and completely to yourself.


Let me tell a story, once there was a deer, a crow, a mouse and a turtle. They all were good friends. One day the deer went out to graze. He was caught in a hunter-net. In the event in the deer did not return to his friends. The mouse said to the crow, will you fly over the trees and find the deer? Then fly back to us and tell us where he is. The crow flew away. He came back after half an hour. He said, our friend the deer is in the hunter's net. What shall we do? Said the mouse and the turtle. I will take a mouse on my back, said the crow. He will bite through the net and set the deer free. Yes, said the mouse. I will do that. And I will walk to the deer, said the turtle. The crow took the mouse on his back and flew with him to the deer. The mouse bit through the net. The deer were free. The turtle got friends were all very happy together.


Moral of the story is that unity is essential to achieve victory. There are various Stages of Friendship and throughout the most important is communication and to understand and to be understood. It is important to communicate clearly as sincere communication leads to the right understandings.

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