WAYS TO IDENTIFY TRUE FRIENDSHIP

In this world, full of false alibis, and imposters, its pretty hard to find a true friend! The words hurted right? Yes it should be as only hurting words may take part in changing the mentality of people towards friendship. Well, no you may say “Oh No i have friends who are far better than those others have”. Damn! It’s nice and you are really lucky if you do have a pure peer group but what, if they hide the darkest ambition within themselves against you! Without even letting you know? That’s what i am speaking about. A true friendship will be open minded and would have the essences required to keep bonding alive.

Now What is Friendship? Friendship is one of the sweetest perspective of life! But can be the worst if a pure peer group is spoiled with an inclusion of a fake friend. Honestly speaking, even a merciless foe, is thousand times better than a fake friend, since; they knows all the weakest points of you and can attack on the same points, times and again. So it’s really important to figure out true friends for life:

1. 1)    Will be supportive: A real friend is one who supports and encourages you in every single thing you undertakes, so that you don’t get disheartened. A fake friend will support all even, the worst for you since, they doesn’t carae for what happens to you next.
2. 2)    Love you in what you have: True friendship can aonly exist if one friend take the other friend for granted, despite of having numerous mistakes and faults and drawbacks.
3. 3)    Screwing Up: Best friends always do have messy and fairly intense argues. But those who are bound to realk friendship; would end up having their hearts shaken together rather than a fake friend who would just walk away with their own attitudes. For them, Friendship is >>> arguments!
4. 4)    Will be on your back: A true friend stays on your back supporting you through every ups and downs. He or she is the one, who can make you smile even on the hardest day of your life. This is what is noticeably missing in your friend if he or she is a fake one! Friends stay together, flourish together and have mutual understanding for getting up to the peak of success.
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1. 5)    Encourage for the new you:It’s natural, that when we grow up, some hidden talents and queries may pop out of it’s own. But it’s the fake friend who will make fun of you always in every attempts you try to undertake. A real friend would enjoy being a with you in every of your madness and will let you explore the inner you, encourage you to try something new from within.
2. 6)    Knows you more than yourself: It’s an easy matter to speak of! Means who will know you and your tiny quirks better? The one who keep in contact with you simultaneously or the one who catches you up once in a week? Well obviously it’s the former, and that is your true friend, not the later! Mind it
3. 7)    Is your secret's sack: Without gossip and exchange of mutual secrets, there can really be no existence of true friendship. You should feel safe to share or the secrets with him or her and the true friend is the only one who can keep your secret’s without leaking them under any circumstances.
4. 8)    Gives you time: sometimes, when your mood is not good or you are pretty upset, then the only way to make yourself feel better is sometimes only the Frank chat with your best friend. But what if your best friend always escapes you with any excuse of being busy? Then remember, that friend is no way the true friend of yours. Better avoid him or her.

Now these are some of the points that can make a difference between real and fake friend. It’s always better to keep your hands empty than holding a rotten apple! And when issue is about friendship, remember that it’s a sensitive matter and ignoring it’s consequences and complications may cost you a series of grief!

STEPS TO SUCCESS

 It was well said, don’t know who said it but, the words still lingers around my ears, “Key to happiness is having dreams. The key to success is making your dreams come true”. In answer to, how to succeed in life, I could think of only one answer, Hardworking, Dedication and Determination! Though the meaning of success may be different for different individuals but one thing is for sure, however and whatever it is, Success is authentically the final destination of one's aim in life!

It can no way be denied that, key to Success is something that can’t be curved out by any key maker or someone else. It lay in your own hands and you are only that damn person who can turn the course of your life to success. Well may be that’s not an easy task as it is to say but, nothing is damn impossible at least to humans. If they determine, they can do it but, the sad reality is that no one really dedicates to what they want. Some quit in their way or some are afraid to take challenges on it’s way. Not everyone is valiant soldier in a battleground!

Let’s now incur the fact, what is Success. To be philosophical, success is an achievement or aim, to get which, someone crosses valiant hurdles and may even risk his life. Or it can also be patched up as something or some feeling that we incur within ourselves after defeating someone, achieving something, fulfilling some wish etc. Now, my theory may not be liked by some, while it would readily be accepted by others. In simple, ‘success’ varies from person. To each is their own!

Now let us not diverge out from track. The steps to success right? I mean how we can succeed! This one is pretty tricky. The 'Mantra' to success varies largely with time and situations. For a beggar on the road, there is practically no aim and so no question of being successful. To him, the battle for survival is the only challenge and to survive it perfectly is the success. Again for someone residing in a royal palace, dressed in a gold laced gown, covered with gold plated ornaments, success will be to achieve more and more wealth by any means. While for a middle class family member, the challenge they face is to bear the burden of family, tackle the condition and circumstances around them. For them, the Success is when they see, the smile of their children on returning to home, after a day of hardwork! But there is still one thing in common; the joyous span of time, that one enjoys on being Successful. That one gets when they ‘Succeed’, however and whatever was their aim, that doesn’t matter.

Oh look! Again I got distracted. Damn to me! Alright, the steps to success! There are few steps to success that can be summed up as below, regardless of the circumstances, the aims or other impacts, an individual is in:

·        Hardwork

• ·        Dedication
• ·        Determination
• ·        Concentration
• ·        Focus
• ·        Strength
• ·        Willing to Never give-up
• ·        Ignorance to gossips
• ·        Power to accept failure
• ·        Clever to face imposters
• ·        Wisdom to figure out the right one on your way to success

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Pretty awkward, seems so deep! Now you might be thinking, that you wouldn’t be successful after seeing the long list of Do’s but wait! Where is the list of Don’ts? Because, its not essential! If you can focus on your positivity, negativities and the list of Don’ts will vanish by itself. Its upto you to choose! Its only you, who can amend yourself, since you know the positive and negative side of yourself better than anyone else. Dive into yourself and make out the power that would lead you to ‘Your’ “success”.

Finally, “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”- Winston Churchill.

IN SEARCH OF FRIENDSHIP

“Friends in need, is a friend indeed”- a complimentary idiom, pretty well said. Friendship points out to be an extraordinary force that binds the unknown, unwanted, uncivilized, uneducated and all the so called ‘Un’s out there with their counter parts; i.e, known-to-unknown, civilized-to-uncivilized, making the pair complete. Yes! The friendship is all about forming a well refurbished, complete bond. Every friend in a group is of individual types and they possess their own good and bad sides. A good friend is someone, who can conceal the negativity of his or her friend with own positivity.

Friendship prevails everywhere, from the clouds in the sky to the earthworms in the ground. Nature is composed of its own essences of friendship, which can be seen by none except the one, who believes in magic! Who believes in friendship! 

Completeness is something that is not inbuilt, even God has their own mistakes. And friends are those magic wands that stay strong besides his or her friends supporting the back of the later, through all the hard times. Friendship doesn’t see race, caste and creed, friendship doesn’t discriminate on the body complexion; what really matters in it is, just pure Friendship! Friends are shadow of you, have the type of mentality you possess, and is always a helping hand when the world turns back to you!

Can you imagine a world without Friendship? Girl-boy, man-woman? Bas? Your run ended so short? Did you ever heard of Commensalism, and all that heck of mutual coordination and cooperation topic in Biology? If yes, then what are they if not Friendship? The fungi draw nutrition for its friend in return of which he gets fulfilled of his food requirements? Aren’t they friends? Just the difference is that, Biology burdened the simplicity with the complex terms LOL!

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Friendship has now been disregarded completely, drowned with flow of selfishness and arrogance. Friendship now not sees heart and mind, but money and usefulness. Friendship is polluted completely since, it had been naked to the extremely level, displaying a shameful outlook of which was once a graceful attitude. Humans socialise nowadays too; but not in person, but via social Medias and Facebooks; where we can find imposters and preposterous people rather than true friends.

Humans are social animals, so it’s beyond doubt, that they know the importance of friendship, right? Fuck off. Nobody knows! Absolutely no one. They now just care for materialistic returns and see a friend as Bank, ATM, or matter of support at the time of down. We prefer to chat with an unknown guy over Facebook but turn deaf ear to the one who just resides by our side. Nah! That can’t be friendship. Calling this global-dismay as Friendship would be the greatest sin ever. Hopefully, the true friendship may be endangered but is still not extinct, if you know yourself, how to make friends!

Friendship is a blessing, hold it tight, as long as you can!

ESSENCE OF REAL LOVE

Time has changed, and so did ‘Love’. It has become cheap, and inexpensive, easily available to all. Scattered here and there ‘Unloved’. Hey! But wait, how could we even say that? Even before Knowing what is Love? Without figuring out the importance of Love? Again then would come, so called Gen-Y, they would stop your philosophical ‘Gyan’ and would proudly say, “NO! Love exists and I love one girl!” Oh really! Then you should not be embarrassed when we ask, “To how many you have said so?” The boy now feels ashamed and he should be. Because for them, love flows down not by spinal cord, but by the curve of Lady’s waist; their love resides not within the ‘heartiness’ but within the ‘hotness’, and that’s why the real essence of love between them dies, even before the death of the persons engaged to it!

‘Love’ is just isn’t a feeling, not just a mere word. It’s a whole world in itself, creating own horizons and individual rules and regulations. Real Love has a sense of excitement that flushes adrenaline out, sending a sheer excitement down the body. Two people is considered to be in love only when, the girl had opened all of her secrets to the boy, before opening up her clothes; when the boy wraps his arms around her and feels like having hugged the whole world. The Love between them reflects in the fact that they both possess a feeling that is unable to be expressed in a couple of words; just would let it flow in the air.

However, ‘Love’ is not only the feeling between two couples. The primary origin of Love occurred undoubtedly, from the lap of Mother. Yes! That tender hands and the care, the self-less dedication to the siblings, protection of them can only be done by a Loving Mother. It’s the only thing in the world, which comes in without anything to be expected in return. Love of Mother can no way be compared to the nature’s all other love aspects. It is generally the purest and sweetest of all!

Coming back to the reality, ‘Love’ today, has been poisoned heavily with stains of sins, lust, and arrogance. The tenderness that once, contained in love is destroyed and replaced with hatred and massacre. If humans really knew what Love is, there would have been no war, no murdered, no terror, and no crime at all. But no! Generation has leaned towards virtual reality as well as virtual love! Teenagers today, sleep with numerous partners, and claims to be a dedicated lover, shame! Human has sunken to so depth, which they doesn’t even hesitate to kill their own mother, whose breast milk was once, the only source of food for that man! Alas! Nothing can be done by force. “Pen is Mightier that sword” and may be only writers, can change and spread the words of true love that would spread far and far around the globe!

WHAT IS LIFE?

Well this seems an unjustified topic to initiate on right? Means what is Life? For guys like me, “Oh dude Life is just like a glass of whiskey, money, enjoyment and girls!” (Though i am no way related to either of them LOL!), but no! There is an eternal meaning of Life, way too deep to be easily understood by all! The one who knows what Life is, can no way be considered as illiterate or a shrunken hearted person, however be the physical or economical conditions, he is living in.

Let’s give a damn to extemporary enjoyments and lust, and see what life really is.

Life is actually a meaning of a time-span that is relatively described by every individual, from their own distinct perspectives. To someone, it’s a span of lust, while some prefers to spend it being spiritual, while some others find it embedded within a materialistic body. There is no denying the fact that, however be the cast of people over the idea of so called ‘Life ‘, its literal meaning is not going to change ever.

Life is beautiful! Yes it is. Have you ever seen, a poor roadside girl smiling, when she got a piece of bread after long fortnight of hungry stomach? Well, she knows that there is something called Life, that can turn anytime anywhere for anyone. Unaware of her hunger, she knows how to find life in every pieces of material she gets. And thus when she gets the bread, she doesn’t stop till, her taste buds loses the last pinch of bread’s sweetness! She enjoys it and gives a smile of satisfaction. At that crucial moment, she was enjoying her ‘Life’. She was enjoying the best gift of God!

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Now the days of rat race prevails here and there, and practically we are not able to spent at least a second, in fear that, may be some other guy gets to our position that we were aiming for. What if we have considered getting the materialistic thing out of the mind? Let’s take a moment and admire the beauty of nature, hear the chirping of the bird, feel the essence of the morning’s first sunshine. And you will eventually feel ‘Life’ within it.

Have you ever noticed someone achieving something after pains and hardships? Have you ever wondered how he or she cares for it, more than anything else? But why does he or she do so? Simply because their life resides within that object. Someone worships their profession and admires it as life. Someone loves football, and it means more than anything else for him, then that’s life for him.

But, those are all damned, bloody words with no practical base. Nobody knows what life is, but acts like he had been the damn expert about it. No! Today’s world scenario has changed completely. Lust for women’s body, rape, alcohol, murder for petty matters, social media giants, everything has taken over the so called beautiful ‘Life’, leaving it just exhausted on the road, tramped over by sins and wrongs that are ruling worldwide. Today’s people are fed up with life, and searches over Google, “How to end life”. I mean really? All the shit cowards? Do they even know what real life essence is? I don’t think so, because if they did, they would never ever have hanged to any petty matters, making it look like fairly large on Facebook status.  

Anyway, it’s up to each individual person how they look upon Life to be. It’s literally impossible to change anyone’s views, especially when they remain too determined to their own opinion. The above article is just for conveying the eternal idea of what life is.